Curiosity Questions
even if you are pulling from your personal savings. Keep the money for your day separate and in one place. You can do this for any type of event that you are planning. This will help you maintain a clear and more précised view of your budget. It will also keep you from dipping into your regular “Bill Pay” accounts and coming up short when it is time to pay the bills. The bills don’t stop after you say “I DO”
Besides don’t lose site of the purpose of your wedding day. It was LOVE that brought the two of you to a crossroad that you decided to be united as one. The marital bliss that will be shared your wedding day is priceless.
My husband and I decided to plan a party that I wanted to have for years. I do not get along with my step-daughter AT ALL! Is it wrong not to include her in the activities? I really want to enjoy the party?
This is touchy! You need to share your strong feelings with your husband about your step-daughter participating in the activities. I’m sure he is very aware of the awkward relationship that the two of you have. Remember that she is HIS daughter and you need to be open to his response. You should also prepare to face the music if necessary. He may want her to be there.
It sounds like you are really excited about your event, why let one person ruin it for you. You and your step daughter will not be dancing together. You’ll be too busy entertaining your guest which should keep you busy enough to stay clear of her. Your husband loves the both of you please don’t make him feel like he has to take sides. Not only should you use proper etiquettes but also be the strong women that you know you are. Be the bigger person and stand high above your step daughter with dignity and enjoy your party.
